Heya! I’m Dave. I’m a product designer, engineer, PM, and team lead who works at Automattic.

Stretched thin

I’ve noticed something about myself since I started working with AI agents.

If I let it, it’s all-consuming.

I give an agent a task. While it works, I start another. Then the first one finishes, and I’ve already thought of a third.

There’s something about it that gets me into the zone.

Every finished task is a small hit of dopamine.

And then I want the next one.

It’s addictive.

Thankfully, I have kids.

Kids don’t care that an agent is halfway through something.

Dinner is ready. Someone needs a ride somewhere.

So I’m forced to put the laptop down.

I’ve collected a few additional stopping points.

  • I run a mile every day.
  • I take regular walks around my neighborhood.
  • On Sundays, I try not to use AI at all.

That one seems to help a LOT.

Because when I use AI agents too many days in a row, something starts to feel off.

It’s hard to describe.

The closest I’ve come is something Bilbo Baggins says to Gandalf:

That’s exactly how it feels.

The intentional stopping points are what keep me from getting there.

Kids. A mile a day. Walks around the neighborhood. A day off each week.

That’s what’s working for me right now.

I know I’m not the only one feeling stretched.

What things have you tried? What’s working for you?

4 responses to “Stretched thin”

  1. Matt West Avatar
    Matt West

    I feel this too.

    I’ve been trying to cut-out screens on weekends to help manage it. I go to the gym, buy a newspaper, read a book, listen to music on an old iPod classic. Just let my brain be slow for a bit.

    During the week I write out a list every morning with what I need to get done and keep coming back to it throughout the day. It’s so easy to go down a rabbit whole on something now that the execution has mostly been delegated to agents. I try to stay focussed on what I need to accomplish and not let myself get distracted by the abundance of potential improvements and ideas I want to explore.

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  2. John W. Long Avatar
    John W. Long

    How do you feel like this compares to managing people?

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    1. Dave Avatar
      Dave

      They feel completely different to me. I think possibly because working with AI is something that leads to a flow state for me personally, so it’s tempting to just keep going. I’ve never experienced that with people management.

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  3. John W. Long Avatar
    John W. Long

    The butter on bread analogy is spot on!

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